What dating apps were supposed to be.
An outcomes-based dating app focused on real-life connection.
updateme connects intentional singles through curated events and shared interests, so meeting offline and building real connection happens sooner.
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Match with Active Users Only
Active = Available
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Smart Matches
Based on shared interests & proximity
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Curated Date Ideas
Right down to the time and place
Join the Waitlist
Built for people who actually want to meet.
Join our waitlist and get priority access to curated dates and in-person events.
How we are different
Match on What Matters
updateme uses Interest Cards to connect you with people who actually share your interests — and turns those into real date ideas.
Less guessing. More “let’s do this.”
Only Active People
No ghost profiles. No dead chats.
You’ll only see active users who are ready to meet — so your time isn’t wasted.
Dates, Done for You
Planning is the hardest part. We handle it.
updateme helps turn a match into a real plan, right down to the place and time.
Our Mission
Authenticity. Adventure. Real connections.
At updateme, our mission is simple: to bridge the gap between digital matches and real, meaningful dates. We believe dating technology should get you out of your phone and into shared experiences, not keep you stuck in endless chats. Too many people spend hours swiping, messaging, and planning — only to end up with nothing tangible. We’re building a more thoughtful way forward
What We Stand For
Tell us what you’re actually into — and let updateme do the rest.
We’ve all been stuck staring at a blank chat screen after a match. It’s awkward and unhelpful.
updateme flips that script by giving you curated date ideas tailored to what you both enjoy — from cozy coffee meetups to art walks or sunset picnics.
We’re not just matching you — we’re helping you make plans that feel exciting, intentional, and memorable.
